The Best Thing You Can Do After You Eat Too Much

Japanese empathy towards boredom snacking

Kaki Okumura

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Illustrations by Kaki Okumura

I was recently asked by a reader,

“I once read this Japanese word, “Kuchisabishii” — would you mind sharing the meaning of it?”

Ah, yes. Kuchisabishii.

I’ve been hearing it a lot more these days in Japan, sometimes over Zoom calls and sometimes thrown around the house. When I catch someone eating their third snack of the day, with a guilty smile they’ll laugh, “I know, but I can’t help it. I’ve got a bad case of kuchisabishii.”

Like opening our phone to social media after we’ve promised ourselves to cut down on our screen time, it’s characterized by an incessant nagging feeling that needs attending to, even when we don’t really want to engage. You might try to tell the voice to go away, that you’re trying to concentrate, but you know that you have it when not ten minutes later you’re in the kitchen looking for something to eat.

But there is something so forgiving, and perhaps slightly endearing, about the term kuchisabishii.

‘Kuchisabishii’ is a Japanese term which directly translates to ‘lonely mouth’, but it’s a phrase that’s better translated as boredom eating. The persistent need to eat something even when we aren’t hungry is a frustrating problem many of us face — perhaps even more so during a time we are increasingly spending more time at home, when we are always a short walk from the kitchen.

But there is something so forgiving, and perhaps slightly endearing, about the term kuchisabishii. It’s less shameful in nature than terms like ‘mindless binging’ or ‘compulsive overeating’, for it acknowledges that it’s less of a disgraceful problem than it is just being human. Like how we are all susceptible to loneliness, we are all susceptible to eating out of boredom.

And like how you might cope with loneliness, instead of berating yourself or brooding in guilt for how you feel…

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Kaki Okumura

Born in Dallas, raised in New York and Tokyo. I care about helping others learn to live a better, healthier life. My site: www.kakikata.space 🌱