In pursuit of self-discipline: Japanese jiko kanri’s gentle guidance

The mindset I take for any self-improvement endeavor

Illustrations by Kaki Okumura

I have had some difficulty sleeping recently.

I’m not exactly sure what caused it, but it started off with sleeping really late one night, being forced to wake up early the next morning, feeling stress and anxiety throughout the day because of lack of sleep, which fed into even more difficulty falling asleep and staying asleep.

It was a tortuous feedback loop that I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.

Thankfully, I’m in a much better position now and I’m getting great sleep, and feeling refreshed. It wasn’t any kind of magic pill, hack, or potion that got me out of it, but really it was about me setting up some boundaries to do the following:

1. Off the phone, laptop, and television at least 2 hours before I wanted to fall asleep.
2. In bed at least 1 hour before I wanted to sleep.
3. Reading a history book in low light or on my Kindle, until I became tired. (This would usually be about 20 minutes. Reading history is also reliably relaxing for me.)
4. Close my eyes and practice deep breathing.
5. Repeat 3 and 4 if necessary.