Finding optimism when life’s problems feel impossible

What I’ve learned from Japanese values of responsibility

Kaki Okumura
4 min readAug 19, 2023

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I feel like we should recognize it: Life is hard. Soaring living costs, climate change, and the lasting societal and economical impacts of Covid-19. Many face unique financial, social, and political challenges, on top of the everyday challenges and work we face in life.

But while it’s easy to blame our struggles on that which is out of our control, providing momentary comfort, this is not helpful over the long term.

Instead, if you are struggling, let me offer a perspective that may provide comfort, while also empowering you with the confidence to help you find optimism and peace, and ultimately, solutions.

(And don’t worry, I’m not going to tell you to just “be more positive”)

What Japan learned from centuries of natural disasters

First, let’s start with a bit of Japanese history, to understand a common cultural perspective towards personal responsibility.

Historically, Japanese society faced a lot of challenges, simply because they faced a lot of natural disasters. It is geographically high-risk for earthquakes, tsunamis, volcanic eruptions, and typhoons, and because of…

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Kaki Okumura

Born in Dallas, raised in New York and Tokyo. I care about helping others learn to live a better, healthier life. My site: www.kakikata.space 🌱